Are you comfortable being alone?

You ever met someone who just doesn't know how to be alone? They jump to relationship to relationship and you're just like man can you just be SINGLE! How do you know that you are truly healed from your previous relationship? How do you know that you aren't passing on your issues from the previous relationship to the next? In my opinion, when you can't just take a moment and be single and learn about yourself, you don't really value or love yourself. You can't even be comfortable being alone to just mend yourself and make sure you aren't carrying over problems and emotional issues to your next relationship. Your relationships won't be successful because you're choosing each person out of loneliness because you're trying to fill a void that can't be filled. You have to embrace your season of being alone because you learn how to love again, you learn how to focus on things that really matter. You find a new appreciation for love because you took the time out to work on you. Also, the best part is you're not really alone because this is the best time to build that relationship with JESUS and have him lay out your flaws and your emotional burdens so he can heal you for the next person he sends your way. We often feel like we just need to have someone because we don't want to be lonely or we see other couples out and about. If we just stopped comparing ourselves to others and just focused on God's plan for our life, we will notice that God will take care of our love life and send us someone when we least expect it. So get comfortable being alone and don't just get in a relationship because you feel like you need to get back at your ex or because you just feel like you NEED someone in your life because your scared of being single forever. You can't love anyone until you learn to love and care for yourself. True happiness starts with you because you can't depend on others to always make you happy. You will always get disappointed someway somehow by someone. Company is only temporary happiness because we they are gone .. then what ? you feel like you're left with nothing. So embracing that alone time helps with being independent. So moral the story is being alone is healthy and when the time is right a relationship will come and you'll be ready because you took care of you first.

Read :

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Quote by Unknown:

The best way to be happy with someone is to learn to be happy alone. That way the company will be a matter of choice than a necesscity