Ruthless Truth

We have all had that relationship that we truly gave our everything and when I say everything I mean you just gave all of yourself. However, during this time the person you consider to be your WHOLE WORLD decides it's just not working for them anymore. So now you're sitting there thinking like I gave this person everything, I was there when no one else was, this is how they are going to repay me? You feel betrayed and mislead, because they told you all of these things about how they will never leave you , and all of the other things couples love to spew out during relationships. Well, story time folks because this blog all about being transparent : I fell in love with someone back in 2012 and I thought life was great and invested so much of myself and my heart. This relationship lasted for two years and we ended things but then still messed around he called it "Just being friends" because he didn't know what the future holds but he could still see his self-being with me somewhere down the line. I settled for that answer and I kinda found myself waiting around for that moment and lying to myself and everyone else that I wasn't waiting for him. Well this where the lesson gets hard and I ignored all the red flags being shown to me by GOD because I definitely prayed for him to reveal them to me. So the so called "Love of my life" ended up getting in a relationship and I turned into a SAVAGE. I didn't care about anyone's feelings and I was dating guys and breaking their hearts and not even giving it a second thought at all. I didn't want any advice from anyone because in my eyes NO ONE knew what they were talking about and honestly my heart was so cold that it went through one ear and out the other. I'm saying all of this to say " LOVE yourself enough to not let one hard lesson make your heart cold" God puts these situations in our lives to mold us and shape us into someone that YOUR actual partner is praying for. When you allow your heart to get hard because of situation that hurt you deeply, you have to pray to GOD and allow him to heal your broken heart and ask him to restore you. Don't go out seeking revenge and breaking innocent hearts because of your pain. I can honestly say that if it wasn't for this situation I wouldn't have learned how to LOVE differently. I wouldn't have learned how to heal myself from a heartbreak and how to not allow people to control my emotions or how I feel about myself. HARD LESSONS ARE THE BEST TEACHERS!!! Protect your heart and don't put all of your faith into people because they will disappoint you, hurt you , talk about you , love you , hate you, and etc. So don't harden your heart because you could be blocking out your potential wife/husband. Don't say that you'll NEVER love again, you will love again but you will love DIFFERENTLY. You will learn from your past mistakes and make smarter choices in your next relationship. Keep that heart soft and ask God to help you guard it.

Read : Proverbs 4:23

"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."

Quote :

Never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter - Unknown

When God shows you it's time to let someone go, and you refuse to do so. He will allow that person to hurt to the point you have no choice but to let them go. - Unknown