Are you really sorry ?

Sometimes people are so quick to accept an apology. Then when the person who apologized for the hundredth time gets away with his/her actions once again. You become all upset because you weren't careful.You can tell a person all day how sorry you are with the wrong intentions. However, sorry is a nice gesture but what's even better is when you put your sorry into changing your ways. Actions don't always live up to expectations because they can be temporary for the moment. Words are spoken all the time but so are lies. A changed behavior is something you have to want for yourself on the inside. You have to feel that what you're doing to others is harmful and not showing people the right thing to do. You never know who is watching and looking up to you. So if you're really sorry you need to show that you are by changing the things that are causing the reoccurring issue. You can't keep using the same excuses and think " Oh if I just say sorry "... Things don't always work that way , people will actually get tired of your mess. So if you are sorry change that behavior because when someone is able to communicate to you that something you did is hurting them and you continue to do it anyway, that's being ruthless and causing lots of damage. Sorry is suppose to stand for understanding that you hurt someone and want to fix what you've done. Sorry is not to cover up mistakes that you'll continue to do. Sorry is supposed to allow you room to fix things, it's beautiful when someone can admit that they messed up and genuinely want to fix the issue at hand. Remember everyone, Sorry is supposed to be a caring gesture and sometimes sorry just isn't enough, and you want to see change. You will only be able to see the true value of a sorry if you stop allowing people to make the same mistakes without allowing them to see their true colors for themselves and wanting to make a change.

Quote by Unknown :

Any good apology has three parts :

1. I'm sorry

2. It's my fault

3.What can I do to make it right?

most people forget that third part