Yes I'm guilty

I am so guilty of not wanting to talk things out because I'm very good at bottling up how I feel. Is that healthy? NO!!! absolutely NOT! I am also very guilty of ignoring someone especially when they are trying to help fix the situation. However, this is where majority of the relationship issues come into play. We lack communication we go talk to everyone else except the person we are in a relationship with. We can't communicate with the person we are so called in love with. That's an issue. Communication is key in all aspects of relationships. No one is a mind reader and you can't expect someone to know what's going on if you don't communicate those feelings. Ignoring someone will only make matters worse. We have to be able to express how ourselves and talk about how a situation hurt you or bothered you. I use to never want to talk about anything and I'll just say "just drop it" or "LEAVE IT ALONE". That's the wrong way to go about something especially if you want a long term relationship. We often let emotions build up and you just want for another situation to happen and you don't say nothing and then something else happens and you still don't say nothing. Finally, something major to you happens and it's time to bring up stuff from 3-4 months ago and that causes major issues right there. You need to handle the situations when they happen so you won't bring up old stuff. You don't want to keep records of wrongs, you want to be able to move past them. When you are able to talk things out like MATURE adults then things will be easier in your relationship. You will see the difference in your love life when you're able to communicate effectively. Love is communication and if you can't communicate then there's something things you have to work on within yourself so you're able to be vocal. COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE. Don't let unnecessary arguments be the reason you can't progress and move forward in your relationships.

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Relationships cannot grow without the proper amount of communication - Unknown

Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning, without it your relationship goes cold. - Unknown