Lessons from relationships

My last relationship was such a roller coaster experience. My last relationship made me into the person I am today. I've never been in something so inconsistent until I said yes to being in that relationship more than once. We tend to lessen ourselves to meet the value of our unhealthy partner. We become so blinded by the expectations we've made in our heads about them. My last relationship taught me that LOVE only lasts when it's real. I also learned that people only give up when they stop seeing the potential in you. I've made it my business to change my ways of being more open minded and letting my actions speak for myself instead of listening to WORDS of inconsistency. People who love you don't cause you pain intentionally, and play with your mind because they know how vulnerable you are. My last relationship broke me down but yet I gained so much from it. Sometimes in life, we have to experience the things that HURT us to the core. Relationships like that help you realize what you don't want to deal with or tolerate for your next relationship. Never stay in something unhealthy because you're comfortable with being with that person. You are wasting away your potential of being ideal for someone else. So, my relationship taught me that I needed to love God before I begged a man to love me. It showed me that I needed to gain control of my emotions and not allow the actions of others to bother me. People like that never realize that they are a narcissist and use bringing people down as a boost to their ego. Lastly, I learned that if God isn't in the center of his life, then he isn't the guy for me.

I'm in a better place in my life, and I'm no longer holding on to the hurt that my last relationship caused. I'm allowing that to be a learning experience to do things right in my new relationship. I am making sure God is the center of the relationship and being sure to work things out the proper way.

Verbal Abuse Symptoms :

- You think you have a communication problem with your partner

- You develop depression, anxiety, and another mental problem

- You think you must be crazy

Narcissistic Personality Disorder :

- Nothing will ever be their fault

- They will never see you, your need , your love ,your pain , your loneliness, your accomplishments

- Never admit to being wrong

- They will be angry with you every single day

- Two faced, puts friends and family down behind their backs

The Narcissist :

He loved the idea of you, how you made him feel, how he looked with you on his arm, how your existence puffed up his ego and made him swell with the supply he gained. But at the end of the day he's a user, and all users eventually need their new fix and that means discarding you

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