Cheating is a choice not a mistake

I never understood the reason behind why people cheat and why they don't think about their partner's feelings during these moments. I've never cheated on anyone before because I value and care about how my partner would feel and when I'm with someone all, I think about is them, and no one else matters. I believe that's how relationships are supposed to be. Cheating takes so much work because you have to try hard to hide it from your partner and lie to them about things because you are too busy cheating and doing things you are not supposed to do. I don't think cheaters realize the damage that does to someone self-esteem or just their view on love period. When someone cheats it makes you question things like " Am I good enough ?" " Why can't I satisfy them ?" Well, let me tell you this most of the time you're not the problem it's because they aren't happy with themselves they seek fulfillment anywhere they can get it. Also, problems in the relationship can push someone to cheat but there's never an excuse for cheating in my eyes. If you aren't happy in your situation, then leave. Don't play with someone's heart and lead them to false expectations. I could never look into someone I love eyes every day and lie to them... that would kill me. I think the real challenge is keeping it real in relationships because people get scared to communicate how they feel or scared to leave because they like the feeling of having a plan b. Cheating is wrong, and you mess up the process of being able to trust. Without trust in a relationship, it's nonexistent. Trust is so hard to gain back. So if you feel the need to cheat, then being in a relationship isn't for you. It's best you save yourself from breaking someone's heart who has been loyal and good to you because NO ONE deserves that kind of pain of feeling like they aren't making their partner happy or doing their job in the relationship. Stay faithful because a lot of people are missing out on real people because they can't seem to stay loyal to the ones who have been there and loving them since day 1. So ladies and gentlemen, please protect your hearts and remain faithful to those who do right by you. If you are having problems, don't resort to cheating and just let it go because whatever is meant to be will be.

QUOTE :

Most people cheat because they pay more attention to what they are missing instead of paying attention to what they have - Unknown

If you cheat on someone that's willing to do anything for you, you actually cheated yourself out of true loyalty - Unknown

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond ring and picking up a rock - Unknown

Scriptures :

Proverbs 12:19 Truthful words stand the test of time, but lies are soon exposed.

Luke 8:17 There is nothing hidden that won’t be revealed, and there is nothing secret that won’t become known and come to light.