Love is like a leap of faith

Love can be such a scary thing. You are stepping out on faith with your heart. You meet someone, and you think "WOW, this could be the one." You start thinking about your future together and where time could lead you both. It's almost crazy that you don't know entirely what the person feels about you. I mean you know by what they tell you and maybe by a few of their actions. You don't really know because you can't read their mind or understand. It's honestly all about the trust and faith you put into your partner. Sometimes your pace of how you feel may not match theirs. That's the scary thing about love you can't really make someone love you. You can't make someone ready to love you either. It's sad because half the time you can't help how you feel about someone. Nothing hurts more than someone awakening your heart with no intentions to love you at all. It's nothing that you've done they just don't understand the meaning of loving someone and taking care of their heart. If they did, they would have never allowed a situation to go further than what it is. Be mindful of the people you are giving your time too. Make sure that you ask God to show the red flags soon, so you're not catching feelings for someone who has no intentions of falling in love with you. The Crazy thing is, I despise the term falling in love because it means you can quickly fall out of love. So instead, make sure you are with someone who you can grow in love with. You can grow together, take things slow and that will help you both know if this is something that you want to move forward with. Please don't entertain someone who you know LOVES you deeply but you don't feel the same. The best thing you could possibly do is make it clear how you feel and move forward, so you're not giving false expectations. Make sure the person you are falling for is ready to catch you. I know for me once I love someone, and I'm all in. My heart, my mind, and everything is fixated on the person I'm with. I love very hard, and I give my all to every individual I've ever been with. The last thing I'll ever want to do is break their hearts or make them feel like I wasn't ready to love them. I'll never awaken someone's heart without being willing to love them. Love is beautiful and scary so be gentle with people's heart because the last thing you want to do is make them feel differently about love unless it's in a right way.

Worth the Wait - Joe Solomon