For my ladies ... Second chances?

As women, we naturally have a soft heart for the person we love. We love hard, and we give everything we got when it comes to love. We gave men passes on a lot of things we wouldn't usually tolerate. We are the queens of second chances because we believe in LOVE and SACRIFICE. I almost feel like we were born with those tendencies. Love for us such an in-depth experience, and we look at it way differently than men of course. I think sometimes MEN forget that we came from the rib and we hold a special special place in God's heart. I'm not saying that God loves men any less, so please don't take that out of context. However, when we are given second chances to the ones we love. It's because we are trusting you not to do the same thing that caused this feeling to began with and created the moment of us giving you a second chance. Also, we are giving second chances because we see ALL the potential there is in the relationship to be able to move forward. The crazy thing is that sometimes when we are dishing out these second chances, they don't even deserve them half of the time. I know for me I use never to give second chances, but then I switched my way of thinking. I think about if the shoe was on the other foot. I would want to someone to give me another chance to prove myself and remove my name from being label as whatever I did. So I just want all MEN to understand when you are given these second chances please don't ruin it and please MOVE forward by doing right by the woman you love. We love hard, and we are emotional beings who just want our partners to be honest and love us the same way we love them. If you are giving someone in your life a second chance, please move forward and have GOD on the main line because second chances and forgiveness is hard especially, if it's something traumatic that can cause relationship issues. Please take the time to communicate and if it's something that bothers the both of you never leave an issue undone, make it your business to fix whatever is causing the tension in the relationship. Second chances don't come around often so never take advantage of it or take it for granted.

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“Because this is what I believe - that second chances are stronger than secrets. You can let secrets go. But a second chance? You don't let that pass you by.” ― Daisy Whitney, When You Were Here

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