Are you going to say something ?

We sometimes complain about the things we can change. We are scared of the outcome of certain situations, so we allow the same thing to continue over and over again. I don't think we realize how much power we hold when it comes to most of our circumstances. I only say that God does give us the freedom of choice. He will show us signs and then it's up to you on how you are going to deal with it. If you don't speak up and make changes, then the same thing will continue to happen. People will only do what you will allow them to do. So you if allow someone to disrespect you and you don't tell them how you feel about it. Believe me; they will do it again. If you never speak up and voice what you will not tolerate then how will they ever know? I know you probably think well it's common sense for someone not to do this or that... well, NEW FLASH!!!!!! everyone doesn't think like you do and you have to accept that. If there aren't any discussions about what you will put up with then, you'll forever be going back and forth with this person or situation. If you think about if someone allowed you to talk to them a certain way or treat them a certain way, you'll continue to do it because they have never voiced how they felt about it. I never understood why people think you're supposed to be some mind reader. I'm sorry, but I'm no mind reader I love communication. I'm saying this to say don't get mad about how someone treats you when you keep allowing them to show these actions. If you don't like something, speak your mind about it and see how things can be changed or remove yourself from the situation.

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You teach people how to treat you - Unknown