PROTECT YA SPACE

For a long time, I was obsessed with keeping people in my life because we had a little bit of history. The older I get I realize that sometimes new people that I've known for a short amount of time treat me better than the ones I've made history with and that's so unfortunate. However, now I'm very cautious of who allow in my space. I have a very low tolerance for people who don't show compassion or who don't communicate well. I've settled for first in my past who would always walk all over me because I was silent and I allowed it. I've spoken about how you teach people how to treat you and I definitely made a choice not to talk about it. Trust me, I've had my fair share of cries on how my friends would treat me. It's crazy because the friendships that I don't have anymore most of them only cared about themselves. I would never be able to call them if I truly needed anything. Especially, if I'm going through something traumatic they would always find a way to make about themselves. Then I would always be the one reaching out to hang out or hitting them up to see how they are doing and I always wanted it to be the same in return for me. I've learned so much from each friendship, and I'm glad that God placed them in my life for a season because now I'm very selective about who I allow in my space. You have to be careful who you allow in your life. I am open to meeting new people, but I'm very observant of your character, and if I'm not getting good vibes and I can sense that you're about drama, then I will definitely make sure that's the last time we hang around each other. I don't need anyone slowing down my process of self-growth and prosperity. Just like you have red flags in a relationship with someone you're trying to date, there's also red flags in friendships. I don't chase no one or force anyone to be in life. If you aren't meant to be in my life, then you will be there. I'm saying all of this to say that's it's crucial you keep your circle developed with people who think positively and allow you talk about you every once in awhile, pray for you, push you just to do better in general. Just be selective about who you open up too because not everyone is deserving of your friendship due to their toxic ways. LOVE THEM & PRAY FOR THEM FROM A DISTANCE.

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Surround yourself with love. Protect your heart with peace. Live your life in light.