Closure ??

I am starting to realize how overrated closure is. I think it adds more fuel to the fire on the issue. I believe the way the person chooses to end things with you is the exactly how they feel about you. I am sure, sometimes things happen exactly off of emotion. In other situations, when people don't take your feelings into consideration what closure do you need for that? I was always one of those individuals who needed to get closure, and I wanted to go back and talk about how they did this and that. The funny thing is that nothing ever changed I would still feel the same because nine times out of ten they didn't even acknowledge what I was asking. I think it's best to get your closure from God and just pray for the person who hurt you or didn't acknowledge your true feelings. I am a very sensitive person, and I need an explanation for everything now, but after recent events, I've learned that I'm not always going to get the closure I want. I think the way people treat you during a tough time such as separating themselves from you in a selfish way, shows exactly how they feel about you. I don't need any more explanation after you showed your true colors. I try my very best when I'm ending things with someone I will make sure they know the reason because no one likes to be neglected. Everyone doesn't think like that, and people handle situations differently. If you are one of those individuals who need closure, I would recommend you go to God about it first and see what he leads you to do. You must forgive the people who hurt and pray that they handle other people differently and don't put someone else through the same mess they put you through. I don't think anyone deserves to be left in the dark about something that they may feel like they can change. I think the only closure you need is walking away and never looking back. You will get your closure just by thinking about how much you love your sanity enough to walk away. The many thoughts of what you did wrong will go away because sometimes it's not something you did it's because they aren't fully developed in themselves and still have a lot of learning to when it comes to genuinely caring about someone and not leading them on to believe something else. Having to get closure is very overrated and leaving it to God is the best you can get. Don't beat yourself up because someone didn't see your worth. Don't seek closure for things you already know the answers too. You will only break yourself down.

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Getting closure is overrated. There's no such thing, there's always another "why" and more "ifs". You have to accept the fact that you just can't change certain things and people, regardless of how much you care. It's nothing wrong with wishing the best for somebody, but you have realize that when keeping them close isn't best for you. No hard feelings, it's just life. - Rob Hill Sr.

The real closure comes from inside of you - Unknown