They complete you? Bad idea

I always heard people say in relationships that their significant other makes them whole. They couldn't live life without them. I understand that's how some people express their love for someone by saying words of affirmation. However, when you depend on your completion on someone else you are bound to be disappointed. People are not perfect, and you will always be making yourself unhappy because people change all the time. You should never give someone so much responsibility. No one but God can fill you because he fills all voids that other people can't. God is the one who stays the same all the time. He loves you the same way your whole life even when you fall short. People will not do the same, and that's a proven fact. I'm just saying never let anyone complete you only let them add value to what you already have. I never want you to place so much of your value in someone else' hand that you feel like you can't go on with life because someone left you. You are giving someone else way too much power. Loving yourself is why self-love comes in as being very vital because being comfortable with yourself, is the first step you take to loving who you are. That's why people say you have to learn to be comfortable being alone before you deal with anyone else. I know for me there were times I was in a relationship, and I let them complete me, and when they left, I didn't know what to do because I felt like I gave them all of me. Honestly, I truly believe when you give something that God is supposed to have he will remove it to gain your attention back. It's always for the better, and you may not understand it, but eventually, you will see why God does what he does. I am saying before you give someone all your attention make sure they are bringing you closer to God and also make sure you all set and comfortable with who you are. Trust that God has you and that if someone was to leave you that you will be okay because you're not alone. No man will ever complete me they will just add to what I already have. God is the ONLY one who will complete me and fill any voids that I may have.

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If someone is "completing" you, then you didn't have enough of "you" to begin with. - Charles Orlando

The idea that you're completing someone else in marriage is death. That to me is a false start and most of us are usually taught that...you've got to stand on your own. Then you build something extraordinary. - Richard Gere