Do not settle for just any kind of love

We have probably all been there before. We go through this phase of being single for awhile, and when the first cute guy/girl comes along, we sometimes get super excited because we think " Okay this is it." Just because this person is doing small things that you never experienced before or maybe you just miss the things that they're doing that you other partner did. We tend to start settling for things that people don't do too often for you, so you're making an effort to keep this person around. Well, this is the things we need to remember sharing your dreams and ideas with someone you love very vital in a relationship. Don't settle for someone who doesn't care to make an effort to see you but can make plans with other people and see everyone else but you. We are become scared to leave the first person that treated us right during a vulnerable time. That's why it's important to know exactly who you are so you don't have to worry about settling for someone who doesn't love you the way you should be loved. Many of us don't think that highly of ourselves because we start to stay where we are comfortable. Love can be scary because you don't always know what you're getting into but that's why you have to build a foundation and ask questions because if the two of you aren't on the same page, then you are pretty much wasting your time. We all deserve great love and to be with someone who couldn't stand to love us in an ordinary way. I suggest that we enjoy ourselves and learn to gain a relationship with God that will help them understand the meaning of true love so that they won't take real true love for granted. I am big on fighting for what I love, and I love relatively hard and want to make sure my heart is safe only because I've been through many unfit relationships, but I no longer want to just settle for any love when I know that I deserve the best of the best kind of love.