TALK ABOUT IT

We become scared to share the things that bother us because we feel like we are being judged. Well, sometimes we have to let the guard down and allow ourselves to be vulnerable. People don't just start talking about things to get attention sometimes. People express themselves to let things go. It's so healthy to air things that bother you instead of holding things in. I know that when I talk about things that are actually deep rooted and bothering me, I feel better because someone can relate sometimes. That's why in Christ it's told that you should be transparent because of alot of think that we are dealing with things alone and we're not. Someone could hear your story or your truth and feel inspired to do better. Believe or not when you do wrong, or someone has done wrong to you, we can't just talk about it. When you speak of things, you allow the space of being able to let things go freely. When we hold things in because we fear to talk about it, I think of it as us allowing that one thing to control us. If we kill the power of what's holding us back especially when it's something that really bothers us we are becoming liberated. Talk about what's in your heart and don't feel like you're being judged for it. We can't be scared to be transparent. I made this blog because I want people to know that yes from time to time I do get in my feelings about past situations that no longer stand. I even get upset over things I can't control. We are doing life together and it's no walk in the park but that's why we have each other. Talk to someone that you trust and share something that's been on your heart to share.